Yes, sir! How much you want out of your sale is how much you ask for. If you want to be compensated for the fees...include them and don't mention it. By asking for a price and then trying to add fees on top...it reminds me of the 'bait and switch' tactics that are WRONG.
The fees are annoying...but just as a reminder, the GIFT payment option is a scammers paradise! DO NOT PAY VIA PAYPAL USING THE 'GIFT' FUNCTION!!